Parents Get Invoice After Boy Skips Birthday Party
UK mom says they should have to cover $24 cost
By Evann Gastaldo,  Newser Staff
Posted Jan 19, 2015 1:01 PM CST
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(Newser) – Alex Nash, 5, accepted an invitation to a friend's birthday party in December—and when the UK boy ended up skipping it because he also had plans with his grandparents, his parents got an invoice in the mail. Julie Lawrence, the birthday boy's mom, sent the bill for about $24 to cover the cost of Alex's non-attendance at a ski and snowboard center, the BBC reports. She says Alex's parents had her contact info and could have let her know in advance he wasn't going to be able to make it. But Alex's dad Derek denies that. He adds, in reference to the invoice they found in their son's schoolbag, "It was a proper invoice with full official details and even her bank details on it." (The Plymouth Herald has pictures.) He's refusing to pay, and says Lawrence has threatened to take him to small claims court ... and her son will reportedly no longer play with Alex at school. Four amusing side notes:

  • The Plymouth Ski and Snowboard Centre has gone to the trouble of releasing a statement informing the public, "We would like all our customers to know that this invoice has nothing to do with Plymouth Ski and Snowboard Centre. ... This is a disagreement between the two parents involved and the fact that the centre has been named on the invoice is fraudulent." The statement adds that if a party host is faced with a non-attendee, the host is "generally offered other activities in compensation."
  • The BBC had its legal correspondent weigh in; Clive Coleman thinks Lawrence will find it "all but impossible" to get paid, since there was no contract.
  • The BBC also offers a sidebar titled, "The unwritten rules of children's parties?" It offers such tips as, "Host child MUST win at least one round of pass the parcel. Sweets within each layer for everyone else."
  • The Herald has the entire Facebook back-and-forth between Lawrence and Alex's mom, which includes the line (from Lawrence), "This is not the first time Alex has not turned up to a party that he has been invited to, either."