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Writing About Your Kids? Set Some Limits

Some have age limits, others won't address certain topics

By Kate Rockwood,  Newser Staff

Posted Jun 8, 2008 10:00 AM CDT

(Newser) – Writers can throw themselves head-first into the nasty, permanent archive that is the Internet—but what of their kids? Emily Bazelon polled writers for Slate and found that while details may differ, the general policy is, the more privacy the better. "The blog medium has a certain kind of immediacy, and a reciprocal surrendering of privacy, that we don't want in our lives forever,” says one writing dad.

Some wordsmiths will only use their kids’ “prehistory” as fodder—that period in their lives before they’re able to start talking and develop firm memories for themselves. For others, age isn’t the issue, but photos and names are always off limits, referring simply to “my child.” Still others run everything by a spousal sounding board. And a few vow to show pieces to their offspring before publication, once the kids are old enough.

Most writers agree that when writing about your kids, the more privacy you afford them the better.
Most writers agree that when writing about your kids, the more privacy you afford them the better.   (KRT Photos)
In the mood to over-share? Some writers let a spouse read their material before posting, with the veto power to trim any details about their kids that are too revealing.
In the mood to over-share? Some writers let a spouse read their material before posting, with the veto power to trim any details about their kids that are too revealing.   (Getty Images)
Some journalists have been sharply criticized for writing about their children's lives.
Some journalists have been sharply criticized for writing about their children's lives.   (AP Photo/Mark Lennihan)
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