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Facebook Can Sabotage Maturity

Try shedding old skins with 450 friends watching

By Kevin Spak,  Newser Staff

Posted Mar 15, 2009 4:40 AM CDT

(Newser) – William Faulkner would love Facebook, where the past lives on amid its photo- and friend-filled pages. Adult appreciate the nostalgia trip to reconnect with old friends—but what about young people growing up with Facebook? Can they shed their pasts and reinvent themselves while old friends follow their every move? Probably not, warns Peggy Orenstein in the New York Times.

Six of Orenstein’s nieces are leaving for college, but “even as they leave home, they will hang onto that ‘home’ button" on Facebook. Whereas Orenstein plunged herself into the unknown and reinvented herself as a young adult, they’ll have a “Greek chorus of preschool buddies” to weigh them down. Maybe they’ll like that. Or maybe, eager to “drive a stake into the heart of former lives,” they’ll shed Facebook and find something new—like themselves.

Will it be possible for youngsters to transform themselves when they've got the past staring back at them on Facebook?
Will it be possible for youngsters to transform themselves when they've got the past staring back at them on Facebook?   (AP Photo/Facebook)
University of Virginia computer science student Adrienne Felt poses for a photo last year in Charlottesville, VA.
University of Virginia computer science student Adrienne Felt poses for a photo last year in Charlottesville, VA.   (AP Photo/Andrew Shurtleff)
Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg listens to a question during a talk at the Web 2.0 conference in San Francisco two years ago.
Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg listens to a question during a talk at the Web 2.0 conference in San Francisco two years ago.   (AP Photo/Paul Sakuma)
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BlahBlahBlah
Mar 25, 2009 1:38 AM CDT
Here is an idea. Be a parent and get your dam kids off there ass to do something worth while!
Guest
Mar 15, 2009 3:06 AM CDT
I am afraid your good advice may fall on deaf ears. It is the opiate of the new youth. Try telling someone from the "60's that sex, drugs and rock n' roll would ultimately be proven wrong.

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