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Parenting for Dummies: What Not to Do

Bad parents proudly cop to their worst-of moments in books

By Rob Quinn,  Newser Staff

Posted Apr 13, 2009 8:59 AM CDT

(Newser) – Move over, arguments about organic baby food. A new set of books celebrates a less perfect kind of parenting—stories from moms and dads who mess up, and don't mind copping to it, the Wall Street Journal reports. Parents who let their toddlers watch too much TV or have read their daughter's diaries are behind titles like True Mom Confessions, and publishers say the bad parent tell-all genre is drawing in plenty of readers—and submissions.

Critics say the confessions—the website TMC is spun from saw more than 500,000 in 2 years—normalize slack parenting, but the self-professed "bad parents" counter that they are trying to calm the anxiety of self-critical parents. "If we all simply refused to engage and said, 'What we're doing is good enough,' I think we'd all be a lot happier," said the author of Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities and Occasional Moments of Grace.

One writer to Babble.com's Bad Parent page confessed to letting her toddler watch up to six hour of TV a day..
One writer to Babble.com's "Bad Parent" page confessed to letting her toddler watch up to six hour of TV a day..   (Shutter Stock)
Parents tired of constant criticism are behind a wave of books and websites proudly confessing to moments of imperfections.
Parents tired of constant criticism are behind a wave of books and websites proudly confessing to moments of imperfections.   (©Larsz)
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wwwonderer
Apr 14, 2009 4:19 AM CDT
Finally. A vehicle for the whole Palin clan. Sorry, couldn't resist. Yes many people will tell you what and what not to do to be considered a "good parent". Many of them with NO parenting experience. I do feel like there is a delicate balance to being a trust confidant AND an authority to children. BUt many things that constitute being a "good parent" is self serving. You're a "good parent" if you get your child the tickle-me Elmo.
MattyP654
Apr 13, 2009 10:40 AM CDT
This idea of perfect parenting is a completely American ideal to create. In many European countries actions that we would describe as "poor parenting" are simply the way of life. We're continuing to compare ourselves with the Joneses.

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