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Israelis Learn to Adapt—and Argue

Israel's national "disputatiousness" is irritating, but survival mechanism

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(Newser) – American Jews are “taught to go all gooey-eyed at the thought of Israel,” writes David Brooks in the New York Times, but this isn’t the appropriate reaction. It’s not so much a sentimental place as it is “exhausting, admirable, annoying, impressive, and foreign.” After decades of struggle, everyone shares the same trauma, and there’s little public-private boundary. Everyone gets into everyone else's business, loudly. It's a country “held together by argument.”

By getting into so many fights, the Israelis have learned a thing or two. They “blame themselves for everything and work hard to get the most out of each person. From that wall of criticism things really do change.” They may be unbearable at times, but, by arguing, Israelis have learned to survive and adapt in a hostile environment. Indeed, "there is no bar on earth quite so vibrant as a bar filled with Israelis."

Israeli soldiers and Palestinian medics transfer the body of a Palestinian killed in the West Bank Jewish settlement of Beit Hagai, to a Palestinian-controlled area, April 17, 2009.
Israeli soldiers and Palestinian medics transfer the body of a Palestinian killed in the West Bank Jewish settlement of Beit Hagai, to a Palestinian-controlled area, April 17, 2009.   (AP Photo/Nasser Shiyoukhi)
An Israeli soldier prays alongside Ultra-Orthodox Jewish men during the holiday of Passover at the Western Wall, Judaism's holiest site in Jerusalem's Old City, April 14, 2009.
An Israeli soldier prays alongside Ultra-Orthodox Jewish men during the holiday of Passover at the Western Wall, Judaism's holiest site in Jerusalem's Old City, April 14, 2009.   (AP Photo/Sebastian Scheiner)
In this photo in Tel Aviv, U.S. Middle East envoy George Mitchell, left, talks to Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, right, during a meeting in Tel Aviv, April 16, 2009.
In this photo in Tel Aviv, U.S. Middle East envoy George Mitchell, left, talks to Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, right, during a meeting in Tel Aviv, April 16, 2009.   (AP Photo/Matty Stern/U.S. Embassy Tel-Aviv/HO)
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And yet we still dream of peace and the day when I am standing in line at an Israeli cash register and an Israeli shopper sees a chance to butt in front of me, and—miracle of miracles—she will not try to take it. - David Brooks

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Observer
Apr 17, 09 9:10 AM CDT
The Israelis I know are abrasive, arrogant, bright and obnoxious. They feel they are superior. When in fact they are nothing without the billions of dollars and Herculean muscle provided by the Americans. Let's see how they do without US support. They also spy on the US and manipulate our wimp Congress without shame or a hint of remorse. Reply
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TerrifiedCitizen
Apr 17, 09 3:38 PM CDT
This is how God once described His once fave people... "Understand therefore, that the LORD thy God giveth thee not this good land to possess it for thy righteousness; for thou art a stiff-necked people." Deuteronomy 9:6 (kjv) Reply
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