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THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 26, 2009
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Obama: Absent Dad Taught Me Value of Fatherhood

President's Father's Day essay urges father to 'step up' and take responsibility

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(Newser) – President Obama came to realize the value of fatherhood through its absence in his own life as a boy, he writes in an essay published in Parade for Father's Day. "The hole a man leaves when he abandons his responsibility to his children is one that no government can fill," writes Obama, whose father left the family when Barack was 2 years old. He urges fathers to take responsibility for raising their children.

"We need fathers to step up, to realize that their job does not end at conception; that what makes you a man is not the ability to have a child but the courage to raise one," Obama writes. "On this Father's Day, I think back to the day I drove Michelle and a newborn Malia home from the hospital nearly 11 years ago. I think about the pledge I made to her that day: that I would give her what I never had—that if I could be anything in life, I would be a good father."

President Barack Obama, first lady Michelle Obama and their daughters Sasha and Malia walk  from the White House as they take part in the annual Easter Egg Roll.
President Barack Obama, first lady Michelle Obama and their daughters Sasha and Malia walk from the White House as they take part in the annual Easter Egg Roll.   (AP Photo/J. Scott Applewhite)
Barack Obama sits on Kailua Beach in Kailua, Hawaii, with his daughter, Sasha, in August last year.
Barack Obama sits on Kailua Beach in Kailua, Hawaii, with his daughter, Sasha, in August last year.   (AP Photo/Marco Garcia,File)
Barack Obama carries  his daughter Sasha, 7, with his daughter Malia, 10, behind them, as he goes to his grandmother's home in Honolulu.
Barack Obama carries his daughter Sasha, 7, with his daughter Malia, 10, behind them, as he goes to his grandmother's home in Honolulu.   (AP Photo/Alex Brandon,File)
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I observe this Father's Day not just as a father grateful to be present in my daughters' lives but also as a son who grew up without a father in my own life.
- President Barack Obama

As the father of two young girls who have shown such poise, humor, and patience in the unconventional life into which they have been thrust, I mark this Father's Day—our first in the White House—with a deep sense of gratitude. - President Barack Obama

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Caps
Jun 19, 09 6:36 AM CDT
Such a wonderful thing. So many do not have a loving Mother and Daddy. Reply
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NovThird2010
Jun 19, 09 6:38 AM CDT
Too bad he didn't learn the value of the Constitution. Reply
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drlarrymitchell
Jun 19, 09 6:43 AM CDT
Another Neocon with Daddy issues, eh?
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Amber
Jun 19, 09 7:52 AM CDT
Excuse me but Obama isn't the one who said the Bill of Rights" was just a g/d piece of paper, that was George Walker Bush thank you very much. So go learn to read and make proper judgements.
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Fondue
Jun 19, 09 8:12 AM CDT
That just doesn't even apply to the topic.
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