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Sanford to Wife: Let Me Have This Affair

SC's first lady told him 'in no uncertain terms' to stop seeing her

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(Newser) – Gov. Mark Sanford not only had an affair, he asked his wife to condone it, she says. In an interview that ended in tears, South Carolina first lady Jenny Sanford told the AP that he had asked permission to visit his mistress after Jenny discovered the affair. "I said absolutely not. It's one thing to forgive adultery; it's another thing to condone it," she said. "He was told in no uncertain terms not to see her."

When the governor disappeared last week, Jenny "was hoping he was doing some real soul searching somewhere and devastated to find out it was Argentina." He had sworn to end the affair. "I believe he has," said the first lady, who plans to focus on their four sons. But "we'll just see what kind of spirit of reconciliation he has himself." Separated for 2 weeks now, the couple have gone to counseling. "It's hard to find out your husband is not who you thought he was."

This June 13, 2006, file photo shows South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford smiling as he is joined by his wife, Jenny, after he won the Republican gubernatorial nomination , in Columbia, SC.
This June 13, 2006, file photo shows South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford smiling as he is joined by his wife, Jenny, after he won the Republican gubernatorial nomination , in Columbia, SC.   (AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain,File)
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, speaks about her husband's recent affair admission at the family beach house in Sullivans Island,  S.C., on Friday, June 26, 2009.
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, speaks about her husband's recent affair admission at the family beach house in Sullivans Island, S.C., on Friday, June 26, 2009.   (AP Photo/Alice Keeney)
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, speaks about her husband's recent affair admission at the family beach house in Sullivans Island,  S.C., on Friday, June 26, 2009.
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, speaks about her husband's recent affair admission at the family beach house in Sullivans Island, S.C., on Friday, June 26, 2009.   (AP Photo/Alice Keeney)
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, speaks about her husband's recent affair admission at the family beach house in Sullivans Island,  S.C., on Friday, June 26, 2009.
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, speaks about her husband's recent affair admission at the family beach house in Sullivans Island, S.C., on Friday, June 26, 2009.   (AP Photo/Alice Keeney)
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, speaks about her husband's recent affair admission at the family beach house in Sullivans Island,  S.C., on Friday, June 26, 2009.
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, speaks about her husband's recent affair admission at the family beach house in Sullivans Island, S.C., on Friday, June 26, 2009.   (AP Photo/Alice Keeney)
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OWLWOMANXXXX
Jun 26, 09 8:53 PM CDT
Asking his wife if he could have an affair.....this guy is a pig.....with no morals...and probably felt his ego fly sky high when he said this to her....At the same time he devestated her ego.....I know...I was in her shoes Reply
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OWLWOMANXXXX
Jun 26, 09 8:54 PM CDT
once and never forgave my first husband
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Newser001
Jun 26, 09 9:00 PM CDT
Nor I with my ex-wife; I too experienced the inescapable betrayal, first hand.
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Iowaboy53
Jun 26, 09 9:04 PM CDT
yep happened to me too........totally trusted totally fooled.......It will feel righteous to die alone atoning for my sin of trust
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shonangreg
Jun 26, 09 10:00 PM CDT
Asking if he could have an affair? It just sounds like he is a hippy at heart, not a conservative Christian. There is nothing to be judged in this *except* the hypocrisy of Sanford proclaiming evetyone should follow his lead. What is Christian conservatism? Is it like a religion or cult you are brainwashed into at birth? A religion that tells you that you must marry one woman (or man if you're a woman) and *then* have sex with only her (or him if you're a woman) till death do you part? ............. It seems Larry Craig and Ted Haggard and Sanford and Senator Ensign and . . . . . are all trying to break out of this religion or cult or whatever it is.
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