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Facebook Refuseniks Still Sorta Use It

They object in principle but end up using it by proxy

Posted Oct 15, 2009 11:00 AM CDT

(Newser) – The Washington Post today profiles an increasingly rare breed: people in their 20s and 30s who don't use Facebook or other such sites. And though the “refuseniks” interviewed have different rationales—privacy, “morals and beliefs,” being “old-school in the personal touch way,” many share something in common that speaks to the pervasiveness of social networking: They use Facebook by proxy.

“All my friends from high school have also met my wife, and they're friends with her; my wife 'friended' them or whatever it's called,” one non-user says. His wife has a word for that: “I am his Facebook secretary.” And at least one holdout, in the habit of having linked-in buddies send his ex-girlfriend messages, knows his position is untenable. “Eventually I'm going to have to do it,” he says. “It will make stuff much smoother.”

Micheal Nourie, 20, plays guitar and sings in his dorm room at Emerson College. He likes his breaks from social networking over the summers.
Micheal Nourie, 20, plays guitar and sings in his dorm room at Emerson College. He likes his breaks from social networking over the summers.   (AP Photo)
A Facebook user.
A Facebook user.   (AP Photo)
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I told my friend to write her a message for me, saying, "Ricardo is right here and he said hi." But Facebook is funny because they've got this thing called a "wall," and she deals with a lot of guys on the site. She says she's single...
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COMMENTS
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Spudsy
Oct 16, 2009 1:04 AM CDT
My friends think I am way hip and cool for commenting on Newser. Oh wait, no they don't. They tell me I should be a greeter at Walmart and make some money if I am so damned lonely.
Mad
Oct 15, 2009 10:01 AM CDT
When something new rapidly catches attention, it spooks me. I become wary of anything that holds that kind of spell on so many others. Even the name 'Refuseniks' sounds sinister
Gooner82
Oct 15, 2009 9:28 AM CDT
agreed, nobody is going to think you are that much cooler because you waited that much longer to sign-up. ridiculous.

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