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Colleges Tackle the 'Sexile' Issue

Tighter rules introduced to empower banished roommates

By Rob Quinn,  Newser Staff

Posted Oct 17, 2009 6:52 AM CDT

(Newser) – "Sexiles" banished from their rooms by sexually active roommates have long been a feature of student life, but colleges across the country are looking into ways to help the hapless figures found crashed on lounge sofas get a good night's sleep. Many now require roommates to sign a contract covering overnight guests to avoid conflict when the unspoken code between students—now likelier to involve a text message than a sock on the door—breaks down.

Though some schools have touched on the issue—students at Georgetown are reminded that "overnight visits with a sexual partner" are "incompatible with the rights of the roommates"—Tufts University has led the charge by explicitly banning sex when a roommate is present. The moves mark a small but significant step backwards in the decades-old trend toward fully co-educational campus living, the Washington Post notes.

It's not really the sock-on-the-door thing anymore, one student said. It's a little more direct than that now.
"It's not really the sock-on-the-door thing anymore," one student said. "It's a little more direct than that now."   (Shutter Stock)
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I think it's ridiculous that people can't talk it out with their roommates. But people aren't always considerate, and roommates aren't always assertive enough.
- Ben Gittleson, a junior at Tufts University

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COMMENTS
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super_soft_wizard
Oct 20, 2009 4:51 AM CDT
Why on earth I got a 'thumbs down' for mentioning my personal experience and opinion I'll never know...
oldgoat
Oct 19, 2009 7:54 AM CDT
considering how much it costs to live on campus I'd be fit to be tied if my room was being used for sex when I needed to be there. I'm paying for the room also and deserve equal use of it for myself. If they want to go play house go to their place or rent a room.
thejoint00
Oct 18, 2009 7:05 AM CDT
in moderation or with equally sexually active room mates there proboably wouldn't be a problem. but it seems that the college dorm moderators have been pushed so far backward about upholding the rights of the individual, they stopped apealing to the benifit of the community. If you are going to live in a community, follow the rules of the community; the community doesn't follow the rules of the individual.
 

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