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Couples Who Share Chores Have More Sex

Housework amps up your spouse, but why?

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(Newser) – More housework equals more sex, a new study shows, though watchers are split on why that is. Two answers quickly spring up: For one, active folks tend to pour their energy into all pursuits. “This group of go-getters seem to make sex a priority,” a researchers tells the Wall Street Journal. And then there’s the mushier reason: housework “makes the couple remember why they are married,” a writer says, “to be on the same team.”

Whatever the reason, the numbers don’t lie—72% of people today credit shared chores with helping a happy marriage, up from 47% in 1990. But why is maddeningly hard to pin down. Some feel a clean house is more conducive to intimacy—while others think housework can eclipse the spark. “Before you know it, it's one in the morning and you haven't spent any time with your spouse,” a perplexed wife says. To add to the confusion, work away from the home also appears to make house-life more amorous.

Housework.
Housework.   (AP Photo)
A man removes clean dishes from the dishwasher.
A man removes clean dishes from the dishwasher.   (AP Photo)
Want to spice things up at home? Get out that duster, fellas.
Want to spice things up at home? Get out that duster, fellas.   (Shutterstock)
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If you're both around doing housework, that also means you are alone together, and in a place where both are relaxed and comfortable. It's pretty hard to have sex when you're not together in a place that permits it. - Tom Doran, engineer, offers an explanation

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gabo
Oct 21, 09 2:00 PM CDT
Now they tell me.... Reply
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kokuaguy
Oct 22, 09 2:20 PM CDT
The reason is obvious and so simple -- a successful relationship requires that both parties be willing to work at it. On all levels.
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stacysaw
Oct 21, 09 2:19 PM CDT
so, if you have someone clean your house for you, does that mean.... Reply
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tran_tor
Oct 21, 09 2:22 PM CDT
"But why is maddeningly hard to pin down".... uh, because if the chores are shared there's more free time to do other stuff? Reply
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Netstorm2k9
Oct 21, 09 2:28 PM CDT
This assumes you don't have four kids causing the messes you're cleaning up. Trust me, nothing turns you off more than having to trace the source of the flies to the spaghetti dumped behind the bed. Reply
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