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Obama Owns Up: Michelle Made More Sacrifices

Many men 'still a little obtuse' about imbalance in household dynamics

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(Newser) – The men in many families need to be "knocked across the head every once in a while" to realize how much more work their partners are putting into child-raising, President Obama says, and the Obamas are no exception. "There's no doubt that our family, like a lot of families out there, were ones in which the men are still a little obtuse about this stuff," he told an NBC interviewer last night.

White House life is a lot different, Obama acknowledged, but a few years ago, when he and Michelle were both juggling careers and kids, Michelle "was trying to figure out, OK, if the kids get sick why is it that she's the one who has to take time off of her job to go pick them up from school, as opposed to me?" He tried to be introspective enough to realize when things were unfair, Obama said, but "the truth is that Michelle still had to make sacrifices of the sort that I did not have to make."

The Obamas watch the start of the White House music series celebrating country music earlier this year.
The Obamas watch the start of the White House music series celebrating country music earlier this year.   (AP Photo/Alex Brandon)
President Obama, Michelle Obama and Sasha, second from left, and Malia, right, walk across Pennsylvania Avenue after leaving St. John's Episcopal Church in Washington last week.
President Obama, Michelle Obama and Sasha, second from left, and Malia, right, walk across Pennsylvania Avenue after leaving St. John's Episcopal Church in Washington last week.   (AP Photo/Susan Walsh)
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divetrader
Oct 22, 09 7:33 AM CDT
It is a choice among couples. Each should do a little sacrificing, and not just one. Reply
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QueenAlli
Oct 22, 09 7:44 AM CDT
I wish my friend's husband would recognize this fact. I don't tell her, but there are plenty of times I would like to knock him upside the head. I really hope I don't have to struggle with this issue if I get married. Reply
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Unaffiliated
Oct 22, 09 8:38 AM CDT
Talk about it before tying the knot and continue talking about it during marriage, and you'll struggle less.
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Unaffiliated
Oct 22, 09 8:44 AM CDT
Not that I've got it all figured out. My wife and I do struggle with this issue. She got laid off when she was 5 months pregnant. Now she's at home with our 11-week-old (and she's sick with a cold today, to make things even harder).
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cochiserocks
Oct 22, 09 8:35 AM CDT
Wow - the President of The United States talking like this - To be honest I don't know whether I am reassured by this insight, or feel a bit insecure because it's information I didn't really need to know - Know what I mean? I like an air of mystery about someone I'm meant to respect and follow - as soon as I know they are just like me (although I know they are of course - I just don't want to dwell on it) I start to fear they'll be making the same mistakes - which while for me the consequences are personal - for Obama, they are global and can involve all sorts of nasty stuff. Reply
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