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Strict Dad, Lax Dad

"There was a time when we expected nothing of our children but obedience, as opposed to the present, when we expect everything of them but obedience." -Anatole Broyard

What is the best way to discipline children? From strict to permissive, there are plenty of strategies. Whether you fall into the Lynne Spears school of parenting or adhere more to tactics like those of the mom who very publicly sold her son's car after finding alcohol in it, see how the strict and the lax do it here.

Stories

19 Stories

  • October 2008
    • Webcam on Board, Teen Drivers on Alert

      Webcam on Board, Teen Drivers on Alert

      (Newser) - If a pilot program sees good results, teen drivers may soon find themselves under surveillance, reports the Washington Post . Parents in southern Maryland find the new webcam system, which records possible unsafe driving practices, a useful tool. Their offspring, however, aren't thrilled at the prospect of losing one of their last refuges from the watchful eye of Mom and Dad. More »

    • So These Kids Walk Into a Bar (and Barflies Start Griping)

      So These Kids Walk Into a Bar (and Barflies Start Griping)

      (Newser) - A smoking ban and an increasing trend of serving food have made Britain's pubs more family-friendly, but many drinkers are far from thrilled about sharing their watering hole with rowdy kids, the Times of London reports. The editors of the Good Pub Guide say complaints have soared about "baby lager louts" running wild in pubs. More »

  • July 2008
    • Connery Won't Give Son a Dime

      Connery Won't Give Son a Dime

      (Newser) - Add Sean Connery to the list of wealthy patriarchs who want their children to make their own money. The 77-year-old actor is worth $170 million, but his 45-year-old son, Jason, will “never receive a penny” of it, Connery’s ex-wife and Jason's mother Diane Cilento told the London Times . More »

  • June 2008
    • Hollywood's Ickiest Dads

      Hollywood's Ickiest Dads

      (Newser) - Father's Day is a time to thank Dad for all he's done—but what if all Dad's done is creep out the general public? Radar lists celebrity fathers who take paternal love to barely legal levels. Joe Simpson: Father to songbirds Jessica and Ashlee, Simpson famously said of his eldest, “She's got DOUBLE Ds! You can't cover those suckers up!” More »

  • May 2008
    • Madge Kid Wants Tour Gig

      Madge Kid Wants Tour Gig

      (Newser) - At 11, Madonna's daughter Lourdes is studying to be a chip off the ol’ block. Lourdes—nicknamed Lola—is practicing her moves at a famous London dance studio in the hopes she can join her mom on tour in the fall, the Daily Mirror reports. "Lola is the best in her dance classes and wants to perform a special dance sequence alongside Madonna” on tour, an insider said. More »

  • March 2008
    • A Dad Debates Introducing Wine

      A Dad Debates Introducing Wine

      (Newser) - Will letting your kids sip wine decrease chances of binges later, Eric Asimov wonders in the New York Times . “I can’t help hoping that my sons might share my taste in ball teams and politics. Why should wine be any different?” writes Asimov, who imagined raising his children European-style to teach them “wine is a wonderful part of a meal.” More »

    • Boomers Move Back Home

      Boomers Move Back Home

      (Newser) - Young people have long fled recessionary job markets by moving back home, but the current crisis has a new demographic scurrying there: the middle-aged. "This is not like, 'OK, my son just graduated from college and needs to move back in' type of thing," says one financial planner, who has seen more adult children leaning on parents for everything from rent to groceries. More »

    • UK Teachers Blame Parents for Bratty Kids

      UK Teachers Blame Parents for Bratty Kids

      (Newser) - UK teachers complain that classrooms are getting tougher to control because kids throw more tantrums—and parents are to blame, the Daily Telegraph reports. A Cambridge University study says that parents are letting children indulge in video games, junk food, and TV. "Teachers described highly permissive parents who admitted to indulging their children, often for the sake of peace or simply because they had run out of alternative incentives or sanctions," the report said. More »

  • February 2008
    • Teen Drinkers Mimic Parents

      Teen Drinkers Mimic Parents

      (Newser) - Parents' drinking habits can influence those of their children, but perhaps not how you might think, a study suggests. While kids are apt to mimic boozing elders, more than one action speaks louder than words: The lax monitoring and harsh punishment that go hand in hand with alcohol abuse can also drive teenagers to the bottle, Reuters reports. More »

  • January 2008
    • Dude, Mom Unloaded My Car

      Dude, Mom Unloaded My Car

      (Newser) - The "meanest mom on the planet" has unloaded her rule-breaking 19-year-old son's car in a very public Des Moines Register classified ad: "Totally uncool parents who obviously don't love teenage son, selling his car. Only driven for three weeks before snoopy mom who needs to get a life found booze under front seat." More »

  • December 2007
    • Parents Blind to Their Fat Kids

      Parents Blind to Their Fat Kids

      (Newser) - Nearly half the parents of severely overweight children ages 6 to 11 said their child was “about the right weight,” and only 13% recognized that their child had a severe problem, says a University of Michigan study. The results indicate parents think children will “grow out” of obesity or that something will change as they age, reports the AP. More »

    • Spoiled Chinese Kids Get Traditional Lessons

      Spoiled Chinese Kids Get Traditional Lessons

      (Newser) - China's new millionaires have ridden the waves of the country's transforming economy, but not so their children, writes the Washington Post . Raised in privilege and coddled by parents who obeyed the country's one-child policy, the nation's "little emperors and princes" have little experience of hardship and spend money lavishly. Now parents are trying to instill Chinese values in their Westernized children. More »

    • And Dr. Spock Breathes Sigh of Relief

      And Dr. Spock Breathes Sigh of Relief

      (Newser) - Lynne Spears might have been able to explain elder daughter Britney's head-shaving incident and even finessed the no-skivvies romp, but, People reports, news that younger daughter Jamie Lynn, 16, is pregnant appears to have derailed Lynne's book on … you guessed it, parenting. A spokeswoman for her publisher says the book, scheduled for release next spring, is "delayed, not canceled." More »

    • Guitar Hero: $9K; Lesson to Pothead Son: Priceless

      Guitar Hero: $9K; Lesson to Pothead Son: Priceless

      (Newser) - Christmas came early for a father who sold a rare $90 Guitar Hero III video game for $9,100 on eBay. He searched for "the Holy Grail of Christmas presents" for 2 weeks, he said in his auction description, and "couldn't wait to spread the jubilance to my son," AFP reports. But then he came home early and found the 15-year-old smoking marijuana with friends. More »

  • November 2007
    • Brit's Mess My Fault, Says Mom

      Brit's Mess My Fault, Says Mom

      (Newser) - Think Britney is a brat? Blame her mom. That's what Lynne Spears is doing. The 52-year-old says her daughter has been falling apart for years and it's her fault because she wasn't able to go on the road with Britney when her career took off. "I wish I'd been there more, but I had the other kids to look after," said the mom of three. More »

  • October 2007
    • Judge to Britney: Childproof

      Judge to Britney: Childproof

      (Newser) - A judge cut Britney Spears’ visits with her sons to one afternoon and one overnight visit per week yesterday. In addition to twice-weekly drug tests, Spears was ordered to childproof both of her homes by Friday. Her court-appointed parenting coach was underwhelmed by the troubled pop star's interactions with her kids, saying she rarely engaged with them "in either conversation or play." More »

    • Brit's Visitation Rights Revoked

      Brit's Visitation Rights Revoked

      (Newser) - A court re-suspended Britney Spears' visitation rights yesterday, the latest in an ongoing tug-of-war between the fallen pop star and ex-hubby Kevin Federline over their two sons. The court recently granted Spears a weekly chaperoned overnight visit, but rescinded it until she complies with outstanding court orders, including one to get coaching on parenting skills, Reuters reports. More »

  • April 2007
    • Protective parents not preparing kids

      One sunny afternoon as our children played nearby, I asked a neighbor at what age she would allow her son to bicycle around the block by himself. "I don't think I would ever do that," she replied. "The world is a very different place now than it was when we were growing up." Did she really think the number of child molesters and kidnappers in the world had increased in the past 20 or 30 years, I asked? "Oh, yes, I think it is increasing. Because of the Internet." At a PTA meeting, during a discussion of traffic problems around the school campus, I asked what we could do to encourage families...

  • May 2006
    • Top 10 Parenting Pitfalls

      Experts offer advice that will help you raise a well-behaved child -- instead of a brat.