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Clementi Death Ignites Gay Outrage

Celebs preach hope to gay teens, urge tolerance

By Polly Davis Doig,  Newser Staff

Posted Oct 2, 2010 7:37 AM CDT

(Newser) – Just as Matthew Shepard once triggered a groundswell, Tyler Clementi is now a rallying cry for tolerance in the gay community, with celebrities and activists alike denouncing hate crimes and telling gay teens to just hang in there. "Things will get easier; people's minds will change," says a choked-up Ellen DeGeneres in a video. "And you should be alive to see it."

Clementi was among four teen suicides last month due to anti-gay bullying, what DeGeneres termed a "crisis." Former New Jersey Gov. Jim McGreevey called for tolerance in a journey that "can be very painful and very lonely," and New Jersey lawmakers vowed to beef up the state's anti-bullying law. Clementi's death has also underscored sex columnist Dan Savage's It Gets Better Project, reports the AP, a series of videos by gay adults directed at teens. "To this poor kid, it's better to be dead than to have people know he's gay," says an activist. "Therein lies the real tragedy."

Rutgers University junior Logan Gray and other students carry flowers to a remembrance ceremony Friday, Oct. 1, 2010, at Rutgers in New Brunswick, N.J., for fellow student Tyler Clementi. The death of Clementi, 18, is being felt by his Rutgers University classmates who said they wished they could have...
Rutgers University junior Logan Gray and other students carry flowers to a remembrance ceremony Friday, Oct. 1, 2010, at Rutgers in New Brunswick, N.J., for fellow student Tyler Clementi. The death of...   (Mel Evans)
Rutgers University students sign condolence cards Friday, Oct. 1, 2010, at Rutgers in New Brunswick, N.J., for the family of fellow student Tyler Clementi. The death of Clementi, 18, is being felt by his Rutgers University classmates who said they wished they could have stopped the teen from jumping...
Rutgers University students sign condolence cards Friday, Oct. 1, 2010, at Rutgers in New Brunswick, N.J., for the family of fellow student Tyler Clementi. The death of Clementi, 18, is being felt by...   (Mel Evans)
Rutgers University students sign condolence cards Friday, Oct. 1, 2010, at Rutgers in New Brunswick, N.J., for the family of fellow student Tyler Clementi. The death of Clementi, 18, is being felt by his Rutgers University classmates who said they wished they could have stopped the teen from jumping...
Rutgers University students sign condolence cards Friday, Oct. 1, 2010, at Rutgers in New Brunswick, N.J., for the family of fellow student Tyler Clementi. The death of Clementi, 18, is being felt by...   (Mel Evans)
This June 2010 photo provided by the Ridgewood Patch shows Tyler?Clementi hugging a fellow student during his 2010 graduation from Ridgewood High School in Ridgewood, NJ.
This June 2010 photo provided by the Ridgewood Patch shows Tyler?Clementi hugging a fellow student during his 2010 graduation from Ridgewood High School in Ridgewood, NJ.   (AP)
Ellen DeGeneres makes a plea for tolerance, calling bullying of gay teens a crisis.
Ellen DeGeneres makes a plea for tolerance, calling bullying of gay teens a "crisis."   (AP)
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These kids needed us. We have an obligation to change this. There are messages everywhere that validate this kind of bullying and we have to make it stop. We can't let intolerance and ignorance take another kid's life. - Ellen DeGeneres

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QuinnSmith
Jun 21, 2012 10:37 PM CDT
 The sometimes-tragic consequences of bullying have been in the news a lot lately. We asked members of the Express-News Teen Team whether they or someone they know had ever been bullied or had ever bullied someone else. How did they, their teachers or parents deal with the situation? And what do they think schools could or should be doing about bullying that they are not already doing?  As a parent the most important thing is my child's safety. This blog covers how a mother is dealing with a heartbreaking experience and how you can better protect your kids. This is the link: http://www.tsue-thatswhatshesaid.com/2011/08/your-childs-safety-your-piece-of-mind.html
Cobalt
Oct 4, 2010 8:19 PM CDT
Heterosexuals consider themselves intellectually more superior and wiser than to gays. That's why they won't tolerate the reality that one cannot choose his or her sexual preference; it is set genetically. By trashing gays, intolerant heterosexuals elevate themselves --- or so they believe. That's the same thing bullies do. Oh and I am NOT gay,
tomodachi
Oct 4, 2010 2:13 AM CDT
In general, the human brain is not completely developed until the age of 25... this is a physiological fact. These people make bad life decisions because they're generally unable to fully comprehend the entirety of their actions. This makes them very vulnerable to credit card solicitations, and smoking advertisements, and military recruitment, and peer pressure... and most unfortunately... suicide. The amount of social attacks that exist in the US among teenagers has always been shameful... it's even worse today when the bullies can attack using Internet technology that ridicules the victim in front of millions of people.
 

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