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4 in 10 Say Marriage Is Becoming Obsolete

And 'family' can include unmarried couples, most believe

By Evann Gastaldo,  Newser Staff

Posted Nov 18, 2010 8:36 AM CST

(Newser) – As marriage rates fall, more Americans believe that marriage is becoming obsolete: About 39% of Americans, to be exact. That number is up from 28% who held the same belief in 1978, according to a new study. Nearly one in three children in the US lives with a divorced, separated, or never-married parent, and the definition of "family" is rapidly changing: 6% of children live with parents who cohabitate, but decided not to marry, the AP reports.

Four of five Americans said an unmarried, opposite-sex couple with children is a "family," and three of five used the term to describe a same-sex couple with children. To reflect such changes, the Census Bureau will publish new poverty figures that broaden the definition of family to include unmarried couples and foster children. But don't expect marriage to go anywhere: 46% of unmarried adults want to get married. Click here to read why marriage rates are falling.

In this file photo taken Aug. 8, 2008, wedding rings lay on a tray during a wedding ceremony in Heidelberg, Germany, in front of the bridal couple.
In this file photo taken Aug. 8, 2008, wedding rings lay on a tray during a wedding ceremony in Heidelberg, Germany, in front of the bridal couple.   (AP Photo/Daniel Roland, File)
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People are rethinking what family means. Given the growth, I think we need to accept cohabitation relationships as a basis for some of the fringe benefits offered to families, such as health insurance.
- Andrew Cherlin, professor

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p4nts
Nov 19, 2010 10:51 PM CST
6/10 people must be gold diggers... jokes about this and more daily stories here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aB-VIwEyfg8
spenn
Nov 19, 2010 8:13 AM CST
Andy's statement that people who are poor, underemployed, involved in crime, ect. tend to come from broken homes is true, although it cannot be interpreted to mean that the divorce or separation of the parents is what caused the delinquent behavior. It is more likely that a third variable, such as having unstable, irresponsible parents is causing both the delinquent behavior in the children and the marriage to dissolve. Just because two things are related does not mean they caused each other.
Vernon Davis
Nov 19, 2010 7:26 AM CST
After getting HAMMERED by the Family Law Courts myself and witnessing what happens to men all over the wordl(rich and poor) after divorce..why would you want to subject yourself to the possibility of life altering Child Support orders and Alimony??

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