Why Your Sibling's So Different
Three theories
By Kevin Spak, Newser User
Posted Nov 28, 2010 6:27 PM CST
They may look similar, but ...   (Shutterstock)

(Newser) – You share a set of genes. You grew up in the same place, around the same family. So why aren’t you and your siblings at all alike? Researchers have long puzzled over the question of why brothers and sisters can wind up so different, and NPR tracks down three theories:

  • The Darwin Theory: Evolution was driven, some theorize, by competition, with organisms specializing so they didn’t compete directly. Siblings may do the same thing, taking on different roles to less directly compete for their parents time and attention.

  • The ‘Different Family’ Theory: Others say that experiencing family events at disparate ages drastically changes how you perceive them. And since parents rarely treat all children the same, siblings aren’t actually being raised in the same environment at all.
  • The Hyperbole Theory: Finally, some theorize that families are “comparison machines.” Even small differences between siblings become defining. A child who’s even a little less social than their sibling, for example, might be labeled “the introvert,” and slowly grow into the label.

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Nov 29, 2010 12:21 PM CST
Why Your Sibling's So Different Ahem.... Why Your Sibling Is So Different
Francis Craven
Nov 28, 2010 10:25 PM CST
It's obvious to me that it's a combination of all 3 theories. Plus a few more factors not discussed in this article.
Nov 28, 2010 8:38 PM CST
To think it was the USA's shit luck to have George Bush as President instead of Jeb.