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Would-Be First Ladies Would Rather Not

Candidates' wives plenty skeptical about life on the campaign trail

By Polly Davis Doig,  Newser Staff

Posted Apr 24, 2011 5:12 PM CDT

(Newser) – There are plenty of Republicans lining up to take Barack Obama's job, but not so many of their wives are sure they want Michelle Obama's gig. Mitch Daniels' wife Cheri, who Politico reports has been notably skittish about a 2012 run, recently announced she'd speak at a GOP event, prompting speculation that Daniels was leaning toward a run. Marsha Barbour, the other half of Haley, puts it more bluntly: “It horrifies me.”

“It’s been a lot to be first lady of the state of Mississippi, and this would be 50 times bigger,” Barbour has said. “It’s a huge sacrifice for a family to make. It really is." Indeed, the 24/7 news cycle and scrutiny of the campaign trail mean that the modern political spouse is front and center—not sipping gin and tonics in a back room. And they would do well to weigh the consequences carefully, says Jeri Thompson, wife of 2008 candidate Fred Thompson. To look at that process without thinking through what it’s going to do to your relationships, your marriage, your daily life, would be really shortsighted."

Michelle Obama addresses a rally at Bicentennial Park in Miami, October 21, 2008. She expressed reluctance about her husband's presidential ambitions, but ultimately proved an asset in the campaign.
Michelle Obama addresses a rally at Bicentennial Park in Miami, October 21, 2008. She expressed reluctance about her husband's presidential ambitions, but ultimately proved an asset in the campaign.   (Getty Images)
Gov. Haley Barbour and wife Marsha Barbour.
Gov. Haley Barbour and wife Marsha Barbour.   (Getty Images)
Gov. Haley Barbour and wife Marsha Barbour listen during a scripture reading at the Celebration of Katrina Recovery, program in Gulfport, Miss., Sunday, Aug. 29, 2010.
Gov. Haley Barbour and wife Marsha Barbour listen during a scripture reading at the "Celebration of Katrina Recovery," program in Gulfport, Miss., Sunday, Aug. 29, 2010.   (AP Photo/Rogelio V. Solis)
This is a Jan. 11, 2011 photograph taken  of Marsha Barbour and Mississippi Gov. Haley Barbour, at the Capitol in Jackson, Miss.
This is a Jan. 11, 2011 photograph taken of Marsha Barbour and Mississippi Gov. Haley Barbour, at the Capitol in Jackson, Miss.   (AP Photo/Rogelio V. Solis)
Gov. Mitch Daniels, right, takes the oath of office on a bible held by his wife Cheri, center, as daughter Melissa Daniels looks on in Indianapolis, Monday, Jan. 12, 2009.
Gov. Mitch Daniels, right, takes the oath of office on a bible held by his wife Cheri, center, as daughter Melissa Daniels looks on in Indianapolis, Monday, Jan. 12, 2009.   (AP Photo/Darron Cummings)
Michelle Obama and daughters Malia, 10, left, and Sasha, 7, wave to the crowd after her speech at the Democratic National Convention in Denver, Monday, Aug. 25, 2008.
Michelle Obama and daughters Malia, 10, left, and Sasha, 7, wave to the crowd after her speech at the Democratic National Convention in Denver, Monday, Aug. 25, 2008.   (AP Photo/Ron Edmonds)
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MacGardner
Apr 25, 2011 11:27 PM CDT
Who the Ku Kluckers gonna back now with Haley gone? Oh I forgot, they have an ample supply of narrow minded bigots to continue to carry the torch of the "Southern Strategy" run by Nixon, and every republican since it worked for Nixon. Nixon actually said on the infamous White House Tapes "Fear can be a very powerful political weapon." After '68, the republicans found out that you could win by scaring the hell out of people and by totally sellng out to big business. Never mind that it was necessary to lie to win, it was the end result that counted. All the moderates have been run out of the party on a rail. The new "litmus test" is that you have to be an absolute whacko or they don't want you.
finkster
Apr 24, 2011 10:45 PM CDT
I think it's the guys that have to worry about being first husband. "I am woman, hear me roar In numbers too big to ignore And I know too much to go back an' pretend" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
sallythedoctor
Apr 24, 2011 7:57 PM CDT
Plus, you have to consider that there are monsters out there who will attack your children and call them "chimps" and worse.

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