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Our Best Presidents Weren't 'Family Guys'

So we should stop insisting on it: Michael Kazin

By Evann Gastaldo,  Newser Staff

Posted Sep 5, 2012 1:16 PM CDT

(Newser) – These days, each and every political candidate can agree on one thing: How much they love their families. Voters practically insist that presidential candidates, in particular, exhibit close familial relationships—but, as Michael Kazin points out in the New Republic, hardly any of our best presidents actually fit that bill. Kazin offers numerous examples, from George Washington, whose wife once likened herself to "a state prisoner," to Franklin Roosevelt, who stopped sharing a bed with his wife before becoming the president, to even Ronald Reagan, who, though he doted on Nancy, was a distant father.

So why do we continue to insist on some "mawkish ideal"? Partly because we have this idea that "only morally resolute individuals can lead us to build a moral society," Kazin writes, and partly because the feminist movement in the 1960s transformed formerly personal areas like education and workplace issues into political matters. The rise of feminism also spurred the Christian right to put a renewed sense of importance on family values. But the bottom line is that "the men who saw the nation through the Civil War, both world wars, and the Great Depression didn’t fit this model," Kazin writes, so "perhaps we shouldn’t make it a central part of the job description today either." Click for Kazin's full column.

In this Aug. 23, 1984 file photo, President Ronald Reagan gives the thumbs up gesture during his acceptance speech at the final session of the 1984 Republican National Convention in Dallas.
In this Aug. 23, 1984 file photo, President Ronald Reagan gives the thumbs up gesture during his acceptance speech at the final session of the 1984 Republican National Convention in Dallas.   (AP Photo/Peter Southwick, File)
In this April 13, 1943 file photo, President Franklin Delano Roosevelt, who stopped sharing a bedroom with his wife before he ever arrived in Washington.
In this April 13, 1943 file photo, President Franklin Delano Roosevelt, who stopped sharing a bedroom with his wife before he ever arrived in Washington.   (AP Photo/Robert Clover, File)
Founding Father George Washington had no children, and wife Martha referred to herself as a state prisoner.
Founding Father George Washington had no children, and wife Martha referred to herself as a "state prisoner."   (AP Photo, File)
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COMMENTS
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Qsreed
Sep 7, 2012 12:55 PM CDT
Woodrow Wilson was a horrible president, why is he on that list. He is a counter example to the point their making.
Tology
Sep 6, 2012 3:55 AM CDT
Since when is Reagan one of our best presidents.
Bullfrog1
Sep 5, 2012 6:04 PM CDT
I like the way the writer slips in Reagan? Let's be perfectly honest Reagan was no better than average if that. If you didn't live through it you wouldn't know how tough those times were especially for young people.It sucked and Reagan was a tool and that's not cool. Ronnie thought AIDS was gods wrath on gays and didn't recognize it as a very serious epidemic putting all Americans in the path of danger just because he was a homophobic. Never elect an actor the world is their stage it's and it's all make believe.
 

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