Nicole Kidman: Tom and I Were Like Brangelina But Keith Urban is her 'great love,' she tells Vanity Fair By Evann Gastaldo, Newser Staff Posted Oct 29, 2013 9:45 AM CDT Updated Oct 29, 2013 10:54 AM CDT 7 comments Comments In this July 13, 1999 file photo, Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, who star in the film "Eyes Wide Shut," mingle with their co-star Sydney Pollack, left, at the premiere of the film, in Los Angeles. (AP Photo/Chris Pizzello) (Newser) – Nicole Kidman continues her recent trend of dishing about her marriage to Tom Cruise in a new cover interview with Vanity Fair. "I was so young," she says of marrying Cruise at age 23. "I was a child, really, when I got married." That's why she was alone for some time after her divorce. "I needed to grow up," she says, and she also "didn't want to jump from one relationship to another." As for what it was like to be in a relationship with such a high-profile person, well, there's one other couple that likely understands, Kidman says. "There is something about that sort of existence that, if you really focus on each other and you’re in that bubble, it’s very intoxicating, because it’s just the two of you," she explains. "And there is only one other person that’s going through it. So it brings you very close, and it’s deeply romantic. I’m sure Brad and Angelina have that—because there’s nobody else that understands it except that person who’s sleeping right next to you." But she wouldn't call Cruise her "great love"—that's current husband Keith Urban, she says, adding, "No disrespect to what I had with Tom." As for Urban, E! reports that he yesterday admitted to Ellen DeGeneres that he and Kidman engage in "nice sex texting" maybe once "a year." Also: "I'm a little red right now."