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Hit Website in France Revels in Humiliation

Self-professed losers share the pain on Vie De Merde

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(Newser) – A website inviting users to share tales of misery and humiliation has become one of the most popular sites in France, the Wall Street Journal reports. The editors of "Vie de merde"—roughly, "a crappy life"—sift through about 1,000 submissions a day and post those that strike a chord for being funny, original, touching, or some combination thereof. Typical: "My boss came into the office and asked me, 'What are you working on?' I replied, 'My departure.' He'd forgotten I had just been laid off."

An American version—F My Life—also is doing well. "It's like there's a kind of solidarity among all countries when it comes to misfortune," says one of the site's collaborators. "We are all in a big, international pile of crap—but we're in it together." We've even got a new word for the lexicon, courtesy of a psychologist commenting on the shift toward sharing such tales with as many people as possible: Extimacy.

The editors of Vie de Merde get up to a thousand tales of French misfortune from self-professed losers daily.
The editors of Vie de Merde get up to a thousand tales of French misfortune from self-professed losers daily.   (Flickr)
Vie de Merde was the ninth most-searched-for site in France last year.
Vie de Merde was the ninth most-searched-for site in France last year.   (Flickr)
"I ate alone today in the college cafeteria," one user wrote to Vie de Merde. "It was my birthday."   (Flickr)
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I came home starving the other day, opened the fridge, and gobbled up some pâté I found. An hour later, my girlfriend called to ask what I'd done with the leftover cat food.
- A post on 'Vie de Merde'

Le malheur des uns fait le bonheur des autres. (One person's misfortune is another's happiness.) - French proverb

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NutsInNY
Mar 21, 09 11:48 AM CDT
Welcome to Club Merde... Reply
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Mad
Mar 21, 09 1:54 PM CDT
Extimacy... Well coined. I'll never understand this desire so many have with broadcasting each and every detail of their lives with whomever takes the time to read. It's like many seem to believe that sharing such minutiae, passes as being intimate Reply
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SPH
Mar 21, 09 3:21 PM CDT
It has something to do with narcissism....
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riffran
Mar 22, 09 6:37 AM CDT
*sing with me*...lol..."Glooooom despair and agony on me....deep dark depression excessive misery....if it werent for bad luck I'd have no luck at all....gloooom despair and agony on meeeeeee...:) Reply
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charliedoodle
Mar 24, 09 10:20 PM CDT
I thought the same thing and that ages both of us. lol
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