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Abstinence Backer Bristol No Hypocrite

Media attacks miss the point: she's a 'natural messenger'

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(Newser) – Bristol Palin has gotten a media drubbing for hypocrisy in her new role as abstinence advocate—but such attacks are wholly undeserved, writes Nancy Gibbs in Time. The “true hypocrisy,” one could say, was at the Republican convention, which portrayed a falsely simple happy-ending message. In fact, “life is much messier” than that: Bristol’s path from “sinner” to ambassador is representative of reality.

Bristol’s main message was chiefly about teen parenthood: “It is hard, and exhausting, and bittersweet” when what’s normal is “hovering just out of your reach.” And on abstinence, “Bristol has been right all along,” Gibbs writes, both when she called it unrealistic, and in her current push for kids to postpone sex, but use contraception if they’re having it. “This message isn’t hard,” Gibbs concludes. “It just isn’t as tidy as Just Do It or Just Say No.”

Bristol Palin, daughter of Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin, center, arrives for an event to promote National Teen Pregnancy Awareness Day on Wednesday in New York.
Bristol Palin, daughter of Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin, center, arrives for an event to promote National Teen Pregnancy Awareness Day on Wednesday in New York.   (AP Photo)
Bristol Palin, daughter of Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin, poses for photographers on the red carpet during an event to promote National Teen Pregnancy Awareness Day on Wednesday in New York.
Bristol Palin, daughter of Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin, poses for photographers on the red carpet during an event to promote National Teen Pregnancy Awareness Day on Wednesday in New York.   (AP Photo)
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Bristol Palin, in all her complexity as target and role model, sitting there with the beautiful baby she wishes hadn't been born for another 10 years, is a perfectly natural messenger. - Nancy Gibbs

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Observer
May 8, 09 10:45 AM CDT
She has had very bad evangelical advice from her ridiculous mom. Sex feels good and abstinence is a denial of biological need and expression. Too bad such a cute little babe is now a unmarried MILF and a high school drop-out. She should have been on the pill Sarah idiot. Reply
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wwwonderer
May 8, 09 11:14 AM CDT
I often said abstinence is like refuse sleep or hunger. Sex is a natural biological urge just like sleep or hunger. If one ignores desires for any of these urges, life becomes difficult.
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godawgs
May 8, 09 12:39 PM CDT
How is it bad evangelical advice? I am guessing that your mother never gave you any advice at all? It came from her mother and just happens to be what i guess you call evangelical. It is common sense that you should wait because in most cases kids are not ready to handle the "surprises" that come along with it, either emotionally or financially . I guess any chance to bash Sarah Palin huh?
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Derni
May 8, 09 11:08 AM CDT
If she had used a condom we won't be hearing thsi crazy logic-Sarah palin the 2nd-help us! A reformed sex Queen -they all preach abstinence-remember the frontal lobe-the executive part of the brain that controls making good decisions and control over emotions etc. isn't mature until the mid-20's or even 30 in some cases-so how do you expect an adolescent to not have sex when their body is tellingthme they should have sex? Its a basic biological drive-food-sex-self-preservation-so you better give them more options than not having sex guys! Reply
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myvoice
May 8, 09 11:42 AM CDT
Just because something is "biological" does not excuse a person from anything. Its "biological" for a man to want to have sex with every woman he can, even when married. So why aren't men (in our sociaty) allowed to do so? Its also "biological" for a baby to put everything in its mouth, but would any parent allow that? Be truthful to your kids about sex. So they know the good, the bad,and the ugly. Reply
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