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WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 25, 2009
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Sanford Meltdown Mortifying—but Real

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(Newser) – Mark Sanford went before the cameras to confess and apologize yesterday, a ritual that is typically “a schtick, a plastic act of absolution performed by men who are just as plastic,” writes Gary Kamiya of Salon. But not this time. Sanford “got all weird and human on us.” Suddenly “instead of a press conference, we had been carried into some Eternal Bedroom of Misery.” it was a trainwreck, Kamiya writes, but it was also that rare thing in a politician: an unscripted expression of emotion.

Sanford deviated from the script most egregiously, William Saletan writes in Slate, in his treatment of the "other woman." You’re supposed to say you love your wife and renounce the affair as a passing mistake. Instead Sanford spoke of his “dear, dear friend,” with whom “from a heart level, there was something real.” It must be awful for his wife, Saletan notes, “but it beats the hell out of seducing someone, kicking her to the curb, and pretending she meant nothing to you.”

South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford admits to having an affair during a news conference Wednesday, June 24, 2009, in Columbia, S.C.
South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford admits to having an affair during a news conference Wednesday, June 24, 2009, in Columbia, S.C.   (AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain)
South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford pauses to look at his notes as he admits to having an affair during a news conference Wednesday, June 24, 2009, and that was the reason why he was in Argentina.
South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford pauses to look at his notes as he admits to having an affair during a news conference Wednesday, June 24, 2009, and that was the reason why he was in Argentina.   (AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain)
South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford  tearfully admitted to having an affair during a news conference in Columbia, S.C., Wednesday, June 24, 2009.
South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford tearfully admitted to having an affair during a news conference in Columbia, S.C., Wednesday, June 24, 2009.   (AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain)
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Governor Sanford cops to his affair and apologizes.   (CNN Video)
Sanford takes questions from reporters, gets weepy.   (CNN Video)

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It was awful, but it was real. And painful as it is, in the repressed American sexual landscape, reality is better than artifice. For the real enemy is not sin. The real enemy is plastic. - Gary Kamiya

He looked and sounded like a man who has just been taken by Eros on a guided tour of heaven and hell — mostly
the latter. - Gary Kamiya

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Caps
Jun 25, 09 9:58 AM CDT
Oh, I didn't know a little whoopie could be this good. Reply
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2-bits
Jun 25, 09 9:59 AM CDT
This man has lost his fricking mind. I actually feel kind of sorry for him, hypocrite or not. Again, I hope he finds the help he needs. He should resign; Bill Clinton may have slept around but at least he didn't let it interfere with his job, until someone made an issue out if it. He kept it "real" so to speak. Reply
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newsrmandan
Jun 25, 09 11:39 AM CDT
2-bits__ So this man gives at least an honest attempt to explain himself and you call him to task but without taking a breath to pause you Talk about how Bill Clinton kept it "real?!? I guess your keepin it real.
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2-bits
Jun 25, 09 12:33 PM CDT
I'm not referring to how he handled being outed. Sanford did the honorable thing by coming clean, albeit in the craziest, most self-destructive way possible. However, Bill did not suddenly disappear to an Argentine love nest to cry for several days at any point in his presidency. Like I said, Bill didn't let it interfere with his job of being president. This man clearly did (and may have been doing so for a while). Sanford clearly cannot handle the responsibilities of his office.
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BeatBlaster
Jun 26, 09 1:08 PM CDT
What does this man need help with? Someone please bring me into the loop.
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