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FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 27, 2009
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Ladies, It's Time to Enjoy Porn

Female audience for adult films is growing

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(Newser) – For years, women have “been told that we won’t—or shouldn’t—be turned on by porn,” but that can, and should, change, writes Violet Blue for Oprah.com. If you just can’t get into the “hokeyness—the ridiculous costumes, the awful cinematography, the ludicrous story lines, the terrible acting,” fear not: As more women enjoy adult entertainment, “we’ve demanded better porn—and lo, it is being made.”

“Science is finally buying into the idea that women are at least as stimulated by porn as men,” but it’s time for our emotions to catch up with our bodies. “Not every woman feels empowered to enjoy the show,” Blue writes. Why not loosen up and give it a shot? After all, “if Shaving Ryan’s Privates winds up giving you more giggles than orgasms, then the only casualty is … Ryan’s privates.”

In this May 31, 1980 file photo, protesters picket the theater where the film
In this May 31, 1980 file photo, protesters picket the theater where the film "Deep Throat" is being shown, near Times Square in New York.   (AP Photo/Dave Pickoff)
Porn actress Memphis Monroe wears shorts with 'Hustler' written on the back during the 2007 AVN Adult Entertainment Expo at the Sands Convention Center January 10, 2007 in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Porn actress Memphis Monroe wears shorts with 'Hustler' written on the back during the 2007 AVN Adult Entertainment Expo at the Sands Convention Center January 10, 2007 in Las Vegas, Nevada.   (Getty Images)
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I've heard from many women that they don't like the sense of being "out of control." I like to remind these women that porn won't make you do anything you didn't already want to do before you pressed Play on the Edward Penishands DVD. - Violet Blue

Explicit sexual imagery is an aphrodisiac; it sends a direct current buzzing from our brains to our groins. Porn is one more pleasure to add to life's sexual buffet, one that can be enjoyed with a partner or alone. - Violet Blue

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Observer
Jul 24, 09 2:16 PM CDT
My wife has enjoyed men/women, toys and 3-some videos for 20 years. It enhances the delightful stimulation she's receiving while watching. I recommend that every adult indulge alone or together. The real problem is that porn has gotten way too fixated on totally shaved women and prolonged anal scenes that don't reflect most peoples sexual appetites. I have enjoyed the carnal company of about 75 women over 40 years and not one has begged me to plug her butt. Get it? Reply
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Deebles
Jul 24, 09 5:36 PM CDT
Prolonged anal scenes--my bet for best phrase of the day. I'm stealing that one Observer. "That dinner party was just one prolonged anal scene." Love it.
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kokuaguy
Jul 24, 09 6:02 PM CDT
TMI !!! Sorry Observer, old sport.
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Serenity
Jul 24, 09 2:16 PM CDT
Its time to get women to embrace sex more openly! Everyone would be better off. Reply
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Deebles
Jul 24, 09 5:44 PM CDT
I'd settle for a woman being able to simply mention her number of sexual partners with the comfortable breeziness of Observer. Now that would be real equality and with it would come a welcome sexual awakening.
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