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Miss, Mrs., or Ms.— 'It's OK Not to Care'

Nancy Gibbs reflects on women's freedom to choose title

By Nick McMaster,  Newser Staff

Posted Oct 19, 2009 3:49 PM CDT

(Newser) – Not so long ago, feminism and convention waged a battle over titles—Miss, Mrs., and the young upstart, Ms. Though seemingly trivial, the question of whether a woman should have to specify her marital status in stating her name cut to the core of women’s place in society—and was never fully resolved, observes Nancy Gibbs. Twenty years after the New York Times, a staunch holdout, accepted "Ms," women continue to use all three.

Gibbs says all three play a role in her life: "Ms. when I'm out slaying dragons, Mrs. when I'm in the company of those I love most, Miss when I want to stay home under the covers and daydream," she writes for Time. Perhaps that's the feminism's hard-won victory: not a generic Ms. for all, but the freedom to use all three.

A group of young women.
A group of young women.   (Shutterstock)
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At work and out in the world, I'm Ms. Gibbs; at my daughters' school and the pediatrician, I am Mrs. May; to a few people who've known me since I was 2, Miss Nancy. - Nancy Gibbs

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COMMENTS
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reasonator
Oct 20, 2009 2:21 AM CDT
I say we do away with the formal prefixes altogether. They should be a thing of the past.
kirby
Oct 20, 2009 1:52 AM CDT
You're an idiot.
QueenAlli
Oct 19, 2009 10:58 AM CDT
I DO care if you call me Mrs. 'cause I ain't married.

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