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Why Men Are Hooked on Hookers

Paid sex 'unfulfilling, empty, terrible,' and irresistible, they say

By Jane Yager,  Newser Staff

Posted Jan 18, 2010 7:40 AM CST

(Newser) – If the results of an international research project are to be believed, men who pay for sex are awfully confused people. "I don't get anything out of sex with prostitutes except for a bad feeling" was typical of the responses researchers heard from johns, many of whom were eager to talk about their experiences, the Guardian reports. While some said they were unsuccessful getting close to women "through the usual routes," half the men were married or in relationships.

The men reported feeling "disappointed," "lonely," and "guilty" after "unfulfilling, empty, terrible" encounters—but said they would continue to use prostitutes anyway. Knowledge of trafficking or exploitation of sex workers is not an effective deterrent: Many of the men had already bought sex from women they suspected to be trafficking victims.

A prostitute in the bordello 'Hotel Luxor' in Hamburg, Germany. The oldest bordello in Hamburg's red-light district is shutting down for lack of business according to reports published March 14, 2008.
A prostitute in the bordello 'Hotel Luxor' in Hamburg, Germany. The oldest bordello in Hamburg's red-light district is shutting down for lack of business according to reports published March 14, 2008.   (AP Photo/str)
Girls stand in red-lit windows in Amsterdam's Red Light district Sunday Sept. 28, 1997. Amsterdam was a popular destination for the British men interviewed in the study.
Girls stand in red-lit windows in Amsterdam's Red Light district Sunday Sept. 28, 1997. Amsterdam was a popular destination for the British men interviewed in the study.   (AP Photo/Peter Dejong, File)
Advertisements for sex shops are seen in Amsterdam's Red Light district, Netherlands, Saturday, Dec. 6, 2008. Amsterdam was a popular destination for the British men interviewed in the study.
Advertisements for sex shops are seen in Amsterdam's Red Light district, Netherlands, Saturday, Dec. 6, 2008. Amsterdam was a popular destination for the British men interviewed in the study.   (AP Photo/Peter Dejong)
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COMMENTS
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newsho
Jan 22, 2010 10:02 AM CST
whores are free.
riffran
Jan 22, 2010 8:34 AM CST
never really did the prostitute thing...but was very promiscous in my pre-marital days...I did it for sheer joy of it...ahhh naked women..gotta luv it :)
riffran
Jan 22, 2010 8:31 AM CST
rofl...ya got me on that one kirby..lmao :)

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