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More Women Explore 'Girl Crushes'

Trend growing among heterosexuals

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(Newser) – “Girl crushes” are now fairly common—and more women are leaving heterosexual relationships behind entirely, O the Oprah magazine reports. In some cases, women are quite honest with their male partners about the crush: “The acceptance of the husband, I think, gives them permission to explore being attracted to me,” says one reality-show star who often finds herself a target. More women, however, take it further.

“A lot of these women never expected to feel what they felt,” says an expert. “It was not a conscious decision. It was something they experienced happening to them.” Some ultimately realize they are bisexual. Others, like one comedian, conclude, “I think it’s safe to say, after you’ve been with a woman for 12 years, yeah, I’m pretty gay.”

Cynthia Nixon and partner Christine Marinoni attend the N's
Cynthia Nixon and partner Christine Marinoni attend the N's "Miracle's Boys" premiere party, Feb. 10, 2005, in New York.   (Getty Images)
Carol Leifer, right, and her guest attend the Genesis Awards at the Beverly Hilton Hotel on March 28, 2009.
Carol Leifer, right, and her guest attend the Genesis Awards at the Beverly Hilton Hotel on March 28, 2009.   (Getty Images)
Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson are seen in a 2008 photo.
Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson are seen in a 2008 photo.   (AP Photo)
TV personalities Jackie Warner (L) and Rebecca Cardon arrive at the Fox Reality Channel Really Awards, Oct. 2, 2007 in Hollywood, Calif.
TV personalities Jackie Warner (L) and Rebecca Cardon arrive at the Fox Reality Channel Really Awards, Oct. 2, 2007 in Hollywood, Calif.   (Getty Images)
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It was, like: 'What is happening? I am a straight woman. I like the man.' But I'm realizing, as I have experienced, there's a little more push and pull as we get older. - Rebecca Cardon, who dated reality star Jackie Warner

If I'm capable of having intimacy with a man, then that means probably that I'm not gay. However, when it comes to relationships and where I'm most comfortable, I prefer to be with women. - Housewife Chris, who left her husband Joe

Heard the song lyric 'I kissed a girl and I liked it'? Well, I kissed a girl and my head spun around. - Comedian Carol Leifer

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polstroad
Apr 24, 09 11:52 AM CDT
dream fulfillment for Oprah? Reply
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Thinker
Apr 24, 09 12:19 PM CDT
My friend calls himself "heteroflexible." I think that we all change over time, and that labels are meaningless. Men and women are flexible in their sexuality, and that's a good thing. In fact, the best lovers I've ever had (I'm a woman) were "bisexual" men ... they are not hampered by silly cultural restraints. Reply
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Observer
Apr 24, 09 1:11 PM CDT
Yeah - Then they go completely Butch and become man-haters. Who is writing this crap? A lesbian? Reply
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newsrmandan
Apr 24, 09 2:17 PM CDT
somebody please kill me now!! The lesbians and gays are coming. Get me outa here I am done, they can have their so called "great life" just don't force me to believe it. Reply
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freethemall
Apr 24, 09 2:50 PM CDT
I know if I were a woman, I would certainly be a lesbian. In fact, I sometimes wonder if I might be a lesbian women, trapped in a man's body. Reply
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