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Parental Neglect a Thorny Issue

Sometimes parental desires clash with those of authorities

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(Newser) – “Parental neglect” is a tricky term that may indicate just the opposite: devoted parents who care for their children, but in a way authorities oppose, Kate Dailey writes in Newsweek. It’s a paradox illustrated by two moms who fled with their sons this week, one to prevent him from receiving chemo—she prefers holistic healing—and the other perhaps too poor to hire a doctor for her 555-pound son.

South Carolina officials say the mother of overweight, 14-year-old Alexander Draper is neglecting him. But neglect isn’t always clear-cut, writes Daily, and poverty complicates matters. “Even when parents love their children, the government often has to determine if that love is enough. It's never easy, it's always heartbreaking and—worst of all—the child loses out, one way or another.”

Jerri Althea Gray and her son, Alexander Draper, fled South Carolina to avoid a court hearing to determine if she was being medically negligent in caring for her son.
Jerri Althea Gray and her son, Alexander Draper, fled South Carolina to avoid a court hearing to determine if she was being medically negligent in caring for her son.   (AP Photo/The Greenville County Sheriff's Office)
This is an undated family photo provided by The Greenville County Sheriff's Office of Alexander Draper of Travelers Rest, S.C. who is missing Thursday, May 21, 2009.
This is an undated family photo provided by The Greenville County Sheriff's Office of Alexander Draper of Travelers Rest, S.C. who is missing Thursday, May 21, 2009.   (AP Photo/The Greenville County Sheriff's Office)
This May 13, 2009 photo shows Colleen, left, and Daniel Hauser at their farm in Sleepy Eye, Minn.
This May 13, 2009 photo shows Colleen, left, and Daniel Hauser at their farm in Sleepy Eye, Minn.   (AP Photo/The Journal Of New Ulm, Steve Muscatello)
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[The state] can tell you to take better care of your child, and if you just don't do it, then what? It's hard to sanction parents. - Carl Schneider,
professor of internal medicine and law

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flame821
May 23, 09 11:25 PM CDT
Well a young boy weighing 555lbs sounds like there MUST be an endocrine issue involved. Even if he never exercised in his life I can't see a healthy child putting on that much weight. As for the Chemo case - Yikes - the kid is homeschool and cannot even read. (yes, look at court records it is all there). Sad thing is, his type of lymphoma is actually curable with early treatment. Without treatment he won't live to see 20 Reply
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Mad
May 24, 09 1:43 AM CDT
In BOTH cases, the government is trying to control what you do with your own body. That's just wrong. Who, besides the easily distracted, give a shit if the child can read? Illiterates are offered a separate standard? Bottom line, no one, not you, not the government, can tell you what to do with your own body. You'd think this was a conservative rallying call, but it's not. Republicans want lessor government, unless they can use it to beat-up on people who they disagree Reply
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jenn1977
May 24, 09 10:00 AM CDT
I dont know what is in this moms mind and I dont see how in her right mind could she not want her son some help so maybe he can stay alive. What is this world coming to? Reply
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Shannonals
May 24, 09 3:18 PM CDT
How is parental neglect a tricky term? If your not looking out for your children, and your putting your views before their health, it's neglect Reply
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Jes
May 24, 09 10:39 PM CDT
Parental neglect doesn't necessarily imply a lack of devotion, it implies a lack of care and well-being. Neglect is child abuse, and the government has the right to step in. When a minor will die because of his parents direct decisions, as in the chemo case, a crime is being committed. Reply
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