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WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 25, 2009
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Lame Dads Rule in Kids Books

Old dad, poor dad as out of it as ever in kid lit

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(Newser) – Despite major upheavals in gender roles, clueless dads unable to parent or set a table still rule in children's books—if they exist at all—laments one stay-at-home father. "I’m aware that there is plenty of good-natured humor to be had from lampooning fathers," writes columnist Damon Syson in the Times of London. But in his survey of books, fathers are all too often "absent, silly or just plain busy.  When they do appear they are often withdrawn and ineffectual," he notes.

Though the image presented by books is that dads have almost nothing to do with parenting, the "reality is very different," Syson points out. British fathers are responsible for an average of 25% of childcare-related activities during the week, and 33% on weekends—and the numbers are climbing. “Children’s books need to catch up,” said a psychologist.

Papa Berenstain Bear spends lots of time with his family, but he's a bit of a dolt.
Papa Berenstain Bear spends lots of time with his family, but he's a bit of a dolt.
Peppa Pig's pop is a
Peppa Pig's pop is a "fat, greedy disaster zone," grumbles columnist Damon Syson.
Pa Pig in Richard Scarry's book
Pa Pig in Richard Scarry's book "Cars and Trucks" is a do-nothing, ditzy dad whom columnist Damon Syson finds "extremely irritating."
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TerrifiedCitizen
May 26, 09 8:43 AM CDT
No one's stopping Mr Syson from writing and publishing a children's book, are they? Reply
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NutsInNY
May 26, 09 8:57 AM CDT
Yes. Women control discretionary spending, and they buy what suits them. I'm just sayin'.
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prowlerzee
May 26, 09 10:12 AM CDT
I seriously doubt dads in England are much different, but here in the US all you have to do is go to the grocery store on the weekend. Dads without a single clue abound, their kids traipsing about with zero supervision. Reply
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MattyP654
May 26, 09 2:13 PM CDT
I'm a dad. when people ask me on the street when i"m walking with my son and they remark "Oh, are you babysitting Matt?" I respond: "No, I'm being a dad". If I was a dad like some of the dads in these books acting like a dolt and ignoring a very important facet of my life, then I shouldn't be a dad. Reply
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NutsInNY
May 26, 09 3:32 PM CDT
Good call, Matty. I also detest it when the word babysitting is used to refer to my time with my kids... However, in most cases *at least* one parent must work to support a family; perhaps it's a bit unfair to call that "ignoring a very important facet of [his/her] life".
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