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20 Obsolete Wedding Customs

It's your day, so do your own thing

By M. Morris,  Newser Staff

Posted Jun 12, 2010 3:21 PM CDT

(Newser) – Get engaged, and within days the world is your wedding planner. Ignore the world, ignore your mom, even ignore the actual wedding planner, Wendy Atterbury writes for The Frisky. Some "rules" that don't have to apply—unless you really want to apply them:

  • Invite distant relatives: Whether the distance is literal or figurative. "Your grandmother’s second cousin who lives in Boca will get over it if she’s not invited."

  • Be "given away": "Here’s a thought: you could walk down the aisle all by yourself like a big girl!
  • Have same-sex attendants: "If he’s your gay BFF, why is he a groomsman? Get him over on your side where he belongs."
  • Carry a bouquet: "Go with something more creative, like a vintage brooch bouquet (so cool!)."
To see the complete list, click here.

A beautiful wedding cake is wonderful, but only if it's your thing. Prefer cupcakes? Serve cupcakes!
A beautiful wedding cake is wonderful, but only if it's your thing. Prefer cupcakes? Serve cupcakes!   (Flickr)
Have a bridal bouquet--but only if you want one.
Have a bridal bouquet--but only if you want one.   (Flickr)
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COMMENTS
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SwtChocLady3
Jun 16, 2010 5:27 AM CDT
I thought there was a HUGE diffrence between a marraige, anda wedding...
Sharkbite44
Jun 14, 2010 12:19 AM CDT
Post the whole list or GTFO! stop being lazy dammit! just copy, and paste. is that so damn hard? NO I WILL NOT FUCKEN CLICK THERE.
G.O.P.
Jun 13, 2010 7:22 PM CDT
Not to worry, if something goes wrong with the champagne fountain, you can get divorced in a couple of years and marry someone else. Repeat until you have the perfect wedding.
 

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