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For Pro Athletes, Retirement Is a Nightmare

By Kevin Spak,  Newser Staff

Posted Aug 13, 2009 8:25 AM CDT

(Newser) – Steve McNair’s death was a grisly illustration of the nightmare that retirement can be for pro athletes, writes former outfielder Doug Glanville in the New York Times. Though players are often told they’ll be set for life, “the pleasure of a hammock at age 35 only lasts so long.” McNair, like so many others, was searching for something, and fatally looked outside his marriage to find it.

By one count 80% of pros are divorced. “You’re a stranger to your own family,” Glanville explains. Players need to learn how to be hands-on husbands and fathers while struggling to "fill that void of competing every single day at the highest level." Glanville got sucked into an ill-advised real estate business, another common pitfall. There’s also a profound loneliness as your old support system—team, agent, union—move on. “As Steve McNair’s story showed, that isolation can even turn fatal.”

Doug Glanville #6 of the Philadelphia Phillies swings during a game against the Mariners at the Safeco Field in Seattle, Washington, April 2, 2000.
Doug Glanville #6 of the Philadelphia Phillies swings during a game against the Mariners at the Safeco Field in Seattle, Washington, April 2, 2000.   (Getty Images)
Doug Glanville #6 of the Philadelphia Phillies looks on during a spring training game against the Toronto Blue Jays, Feb. 27, 1998.
Doug Glanville #6 of the Philadelphia Phillies looks on during a spring training game against the Toronto Blue Jays, Feb. 27, 1998.   (Getty Images)
Outfielder Doug Glanville of the Philadelphia Phillies in action during a spring training game against the Houston Astros at the Jack Russell Stadium in Clearwater, Florida, March 5, 1998.
Outfielder Doug Glanville of the Philadelphia Phillies in action during a spring training game against the Houston Astros at the Jack Russell Stadium in Clearwater, Florida, March 5, 1998.   (Getty Images)
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Ask any ballplayer in transition; odds are they have at least “dabbled in real estate.”
- Doug Glanville

No matter how your career ends, once it does, it feels like the rocket you rode to the top has been abruptly stopped by an errant asteroid. - Doug Glanville

I had a Ph.D. in baseball, but in every other realm that involved making a living, I was stuck at my college graduation ceremony, 15 years before. - Doug Glanville

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COMMENTS
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kokuaguy
Aug 13, 2009 7:56 AM CDT
This doesn't have to happen. These guys are exploited so often. Just another illustration of our sick culture.
wwwonderer
Aug 13, 2009 5:28 AM CDT
exactly. Anyone is subject to this. It's just that many don't find themselves like the average pro athlete. 30-year-old millionaire.
paul123
Aug 13, 2009 2:06 AM CDT
Poor financial planning + stressful job that can strain a marriage + wandering eyes will make anyone miserable, not just athletes.

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